September 8, 2025

Tips for Wrangling Toddlers During a Photo Session (Without Losing Your Mind)

kimvanos
8 min read

Toddlers are wild cards—and honestly, that’s what makes photographing them so fun. You never know what you’ll get, and I’m here for the chaos, the cuddles, and the curiosity.

 

1. Keep It Short, Sweet, and Playful

I design toddler-friendly sessions to be fast-paced and fun. We focus on play first—letting them explore, giggle, or dance—and we sneak in posed family shots in between.

 

2. Bribery Isn’t a Sin (But We Might Not Need It)

If you want to bring snacks or a toy, great. But I aim to make the session so engaging that they don’t need much coaxing. My goal? I want your toddler to leave NOT wanting to leave!

And if they don’t look at the camera? I’ve got tricks. I’ll have a parent or sibling step out to grab their attention—and if all else fails, I’ll swap heads in Photoshop. Honestly the best photos of the kiddos not looking at the camera but just being in the moment. No stress needed.

3. Parents I Got You, You Can Relax

The #1 thing that derails a toddler session? Parents stressing out. If you’re telling your toddler to smile or look at the camera while I’m shooting, they’re more likely to tune you out (and not smile). Let me guide them—it’s literally my job. You just enjoy the moment.

Want toddler photos that show real life—smiles, mess, and all? [Session Rates ]

Your Friendly Neighborhood Photographer,

Kim 

@kimvanosphotography.com

Written By kimvanos
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